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Remote therapy and consultancy from the convenience of your home or office, plus face to face or outdoor options

I work with issues relating to identity or belonging, including mixed culture, suspected or diagnosed neurodivergence, or GSRD

I will give you a safe and confidential space, free of judgement, to explore whatever is difficult in your life, and to help you identify what you might want to change

Services available

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One-to-one,
remote therapy

I have full training and extensive experience in video, audio, and SMS therapy, as well as through email for those who may prefer no interruptions, or who struggle with regular time commitments.

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In-person therapy, indoors and outdoors

I offer sessions from a cosy confidential therapy cabin, or outdoor counselling (also known as walk and talk), where we sit or walk in a local nature spot.

Non-walking babies are welcome to attend your session with you.

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Consultancy

I offer consultancy to teachers, carers and parents around how to support young neurodivergent people at home or in the school environment (e.g. ADHD, PDA, autism).

This is for those that feel they are ‘out of ideas’, or that ‘traditional’ (aka neurotypical) parenting or teaching strategies aren’t working.

I’m Nina

I am a native English-speaking therapist offering in-person sessions in north west Stockholm, and remote work for all clients, whether in Sweden or internationally.

I am a UK-accredited Gestalt therapist with 30 years’ experience in the fields of mental health and psychology, and as a therapist since 2010. I work creatively, using whatever helps you to understand yourself or your situation better. 

I specialise in helping people who struggle to fit in, or don’t know where they belong, especially where issues arise through living a mixed culture life, suspected or diagnosed neurodivergence (e.g. ADHD, PDA, dyslexia, autism), the twin relationship, or confusion around gender, sexuality or relationships.

Nina Shah BSc Psychology (Hons), Gestalt Counsellor Dip. MBACP (Accred.), Reiki Master Level 3

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The auras of people – what are they, what do they mean? Making sense of our assumptions

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This isn`t just NTs. And it isn`t just autistic people. My impatient ADHD self cannot standing waiting without knowing whether I`ve got time to do something more interesting than waiting. Or whether I can fit in just one more job. You describe a common dynamic in my household growing up. And my (self diagnosed) AuDHD mama used to feel so pressured and criticised by this question, that I had to break it down every time ** I need to know when dinner will be ready, because I forgot to eat lunch and can probably wait five minutes, but may well keel over if I have to wait longer. I am very happy to get myself a pre-dinner snack while I wait, and will eat my entire dinner regardless of either outcome... ** But she really struggled with deviation from her rules, which revolved around no snacks before meals...everyone waits quietly and patiently and out of her way. As an adult, I walk around with snacks, and regularly snack while I make dinner for myself and my own family, because I am awful at regulating my hunger needs. It feels to me as if the issue arises more from undiagnosed ND families, not knowing ourselves, not knowing our needs, not being able to communicate our needs, or not being able to hear others` needs. At least, in our home growing up! Thoughts?? Thanks for @lifeinautismworld for your original post on this. #adhd #autism #autistic #neurodivergent ...

Another video on autism in girls and women, though this one also applies to all genders, not just females - it`s a very short intro to alexithymia.

NOTE: this video focuses on people who can identify physical feelings in their bodies, but struggle with recognising emotions. There are also many ND folk who struggle to identify physical feelings in their bodies, and this video does not cover that aspect. This latter is around difficulties with interoception - the ability to identify the body`s internal physical signals e.g. hunger, thirst, need for the toilet, tiredness, which can be linked with, but is not the same as alexithymia.

For the full video with captions, please go to my YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/engZ1cdT8AA

#autistic #autisticgirl #autisticwoman #autisminwomen
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Here`s the second of my autism in women and girls videos. This one is mostly around relationships and socialising.

#autistic #autisticgirl #autisticwoman #autisminwomen #peoplepleasing #fittingin #dysregulation #bigfeelings #emotional #empath #hsp #highlysensitiveperson #autism #friends #friendship #relationship #scripts #chameleon #overwhelm #overload #demands #intimacy #physicalchemistry

https://youtu.be/IRan2ZL3qME
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I wanted to share this loveliness with you (an award from my son!), and to thank you all for being awesome in your support of my little channel! 🙏 Please do let me know if there is anything specific you`d like more information on. ✨

#adhd #autism #gsrd #mixedculture #100 #100subscribers #subscribers #relationships #gratitude
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